We never learn from mistakes…well at least some don’t. There are a few I know, who are such dumbbells that they have promised themselves that they will act crazy and destroy their life at its ripest time. Of course I mean the girls that are of my age group…my colleagues in college. They are young, beautiful & bubbling with life &….some foolishly presumes they will be like that forever. They say they are in love, & they want to talk to their soul mate all day long.
Whatever the friends do to warn them of the disasters won’t work. They are just bitten by the love bug & at the end of story they will be left heart broken. At that time I just want to shout to them I told you so, but I haven’ done that yet. Sure there are some love stories that are genuine. But nowadays the society is so rotten & from most of the cases I know about my friends love is just a game for them….a pass time…a peer pressure thing. I had a friend who was so in love and finally it ended badly for the girl , the boy & the family. She has stopped her studies, & she is not even allowed to call her friends. Some people who are living close to her home told me once that she is so changed. She rarely speaks anything, always being rude to people who show kindness and to sum it up she has shut herself up in a miserable world of her own.
One thing I know for sure, college life is not just for enjoyment. Its the hard-work during this time that determines the rest of our life or career path (in my case its so) . So the safe thing to do is to stay away from all stupidities, including falling in love.I really hope that my friends who are so in love with "some person on the other end of mobile phone" will throw the stupid thing away & start working for their exams........God I am really in a bad mood now..... :( ...I wonder why that love-bitten friends never listen to me?....I think love also makes them deaf or immune to good advices....
Cool Aswathi... It's a fact. Love is like poison.. Hard to convince when someone is in love. I had several bad experiences and so does my friends.
ReplyDeleteRecently I heard, one of my friend was fooled by a guy, who told all lies to her (like he's orphan and all) and chat her from two ids.. one is like acting as friend of him and the other one is his original ID. the fake friend ID will give good impression about him and get the sympathetic love. This girl was damn serious and finally without any harm realized she was being fooled. Thank God, they were geographically parted. So nothing bad happened. On the other hand, several friends warned, he's a fake. She never listened.
@ sarath...I was really angry & sad yesterday...as I had a small fight with a friend over the "love" matter...I think I got too emotional while writing this post..
ReplyDelete2 early 2 judge... tho of course lov has becom mor f a fashion. ppl misuse it. but thn that's not d only subject... wrld is getting murkier day by day wid all d polution f selfishness, corruption, lawlessness etc... d genx wont evn kno abt values. 4 em partners wil b a time pass, marriage wil b mockery, bribery a birthrite... good wil b bad n bad wil b good. but thn jus as der wer few bad ppl once, der wil b few good ppl in future 4 sure. wer shud v stand is our choice :-)
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